It's always looking for help because the ego is basically scared and keeps failing to give us the happiness it promises. The thing doesn't know what to do. It thinks it's better than it really is, but it always falls short granny. Compared to the spirit, which is loud, it is not a good leader or friend. We have a beautiful grandeur about us. If we claim it, we will never again give in to the ego's silly and pointless attempts to be great.